If you think you, or some you know, has been the victim of sexual violence then it’s really important that you know it isn’t your fault. Sexual violence can include sexual assault, rape, or abuse. Nobody should be forced to do something sexual against their will. Tell someone you trust, such as a friend, family member or even teacher or GP. We have listed a few helplines below but if you or someone you know is in immediate danger call 999.
What is sexual exploitation?
Sexual exploitation is a hidden form of child abuse and is a crime. CSE – child sexual exploitation – involves children of either sex being coerced, manipulated or tricked into sexual acts. It is very unlikely that young people who are sexually exploited will tell the adults around them what is going on. This may be because they don’t think anything is wrong or because they are afraid.
Alcohol, drugs, trainers or things like jewellery are often used by abuser as gifts to children and young people. The abuser may also draw children in by making them believe they are in a relationship. A child is unable to see that they are being used for sex because the abuser has tricked them or may hold power over them in some way. For example, they may have an explicit photo of the child that they use to threaten them and make them do what they want. This grooming and abuse can start online before happening in person. It can also take place within groups of friends of a similar age.
Abusers know how to target vulnerable people and they are skilled in approaching them and gaining trust. This makes is difficult for exploited children to understand what is happening to them. It may appear that some children put themselves in risky situations, however they are in fact being targeted, controlled, manipulated and used.
Say Something – 116 000 – free, 24-hour, anonymous phone and SMS (text) helpline. It’s run by Faceup2it and Missing People and enables young people to disclose information and seek support about sexual exploitation.
Childline – a free 24-hour counselling helpline (by NSPCC) for children and young people up to their 19th birthday.
Blast! is project that works with young men and boys involved in or at risk of becoming involved in sexual exploitation. Lots of useful information and powerful personal stories.
Thinkuknow – A brilliant website full of information and videos about sexual exploitation
CEOP Safety Centre – How to report a concern and find support
Zipit helps you to humorously and diplomatically tell people that you’re not interested in sharing private pictures that might end up on the internet. It also gives you important advice on things like how to chat safely and what to do if you’re worried.
Wud U? is an app from Barnardo’s that lets you find out how to make safe decisions to help prevent yourself from being sexually exploited.
FaceUp2It – website developed by FACE (Fighting Against Child Exploitation) a group of young people, male and female, who are aware of the dangers of grooming and sexual exploitation to share info and help other young people who are vulnerable or taking risks.
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For more organisations or info about sexual exploitation, check out our database or contact Meic, the advocacy, advice and information helpline for children and young people in Wales — Freephone: 080880 23456 / Text: 84001 / Instant Message.